There are so many books and information out there on goal setting. If  the practice works, as most people would agree, why don't more people  incorporate goal setting into their daily lives? There are some who  suggest that they do, in fact, set goals for themselves. We have to be  careful however. In order for a goal to really be a goal it must possess  a few key ingredients. It must be written down. It must be written in  first person. It must have a deadline. And, it must be realistic.
I  have never run across a book on goal setting that waives from the  thought that the goal must be written down. It's a matter of programming  the subconscious mind. Our subconscious works even while we're  sleeping. Writing our goals down, especially over and over, programs  instructions deep into our mind. This programming leads us in our daily  activities to do the things we need to do to achieve our goal.
It  is critical to write the goal in first person. Studies have shown that  the subconscious mind can only accept instructions in the first-person  tense. This is the core reason for using the logic of writing our goals  in the first person tense.
Do your goals have a deadline? This is  quite possibly the most often and most critically abused area in goal  setting. Many people say they have a goal and they can generally tell  you the basics of what it is but ask them when their deadline is. When  do they intend to reach the goal? This should be down to the nearest  month or even day if possible.
When we have a deadline on our  goals we have a layer of accountability with ourselves. We also have a  layer of accountability with those with whom we share our goals. By the  way, only share your goals with people who you know will support you  110%.
Realistic goals...that's no fun! Yes, our goals must be  realistic. I do agree however, that we must stretch ourselves in life  and with our goals. We simply aren't growing if we do not stretch  ourselves. Our goals must be out of reach but not out of sight. If we  reach a goal, big or small, there should be reason for a celebration.  This only makes sense if we achieved something significant. Push  yourself a little bit when setting your goals.
If you'll adopt the  habit of following these principles and writing your goals down 4-6  times per week your life will begin to change for the better. You can  achieve so much more than you ever imagined and goal setting is one  tactic to move you toward success very quickly.
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